“Little did I know when I ordered Charles Muir’s DVD, Secrets of Female Sexual Ecstasy, how much it would change my life.”
“Tantra Stories” is a series of touching testimonials from our Source School of Tantra Yoga seminar students. This story is written by a woman who had a breakthrough around her orgasmic potential. Learn more about our Tantra Seminars HERE!
I was excited reading Caroline’s story about the elusive clitoral orgasm. I too would often feel frustrated when it felt like I was about to have an orgasm and the feeling would disappear. I am 55 years old and was thinking there was something wrong with my sexual response. I yearned for the deeper, more fulfilling experience she described in the book, how sacred spot massage had given her powerful vaginal contractions that sent her whole body into a series of thirty or more orgasms and got her vaginal fluid (amrita) flowing.
My boyfriend, Paul, is a wonderful person in many ways, though he did not have much of a sex drive. I tried to get him interested in working with me. He did what he could but was less than fully enthusiastic. Since I did not have a significant response, he gave up, thinking that it did not work. We looked at the DVD a second time and he responded with a bit more enthusiasm but still was not really gung ho.
One of the things I love about Paul is that he is entirely nonpossessive. When I decided to go to Mexico for a peace-dancing week, he sent me off and urged me to have fun. My traveling partner was my good friend, Alan, who had been interested in me for several years. I was not sure I wanted to have intercourse with Alan, but I trusted him entirely and loved his sweet heart. I decided to share the Tantra: The Art of Conscious Loving book with him. We read the introduction together, and he was excited beyond measure.
Alan followed the instructions carefully, setting the atmosphere, massaging me all over with oil before beginning the ritual. The gentle yin touch he used on my clitoris really did the trick. With no intent in mind, I could relax, enjoy the attention, and really find pleasure in his slow, gentle touch. There was no short circuiting. I could have just done this all night. Then he began to massage my sacred spot.
Alan had not even heard about the sacred spot before, but that did not seem to be a problem. The first session I ejaculated handfuls of liquid. The third session I had my first vaginal orgasm. I can say that this was a life-changing experience for both of us. I feel so liberated knowing that I can do this.
Now I know there is nothing wrong with my sexual response. I experience immediate pleasure upon stimulation of my sacred spot.
I now love to be on top of my partner, Paul. And I am able to ejaculate every time when I ride on his fingers. I have felt waves of pleasure that were beyond anything I had ever experienced before. I remember thinking at the time, “So this is what she was talking about”.
Perhaps the most remarkable thing so far, aside from the pleasure and wonderful bonding with my partner, is the increase in energy I feel after we have made love. One day, I had so much energy and accomplished so many projects I had on my to-do list (including cleaning out and reorganizing a storage shed) that Paul couldn’t believe I hadn’t been drinking lots of coffee. Besides the energy, my outlook on life has become so much more positive.
I am looking forward to the time when I can experience this lovemaking every day.
I have loaned my Source Tantra Home Study Course to two of my female friends and told them about how excited I was at discovering this information. What a beautiful gift!
~ A.H. Tantra Student